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box-sizing: border-box; border: 4px solid #ffffff;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; max-width: 100%; width: 496px; box-sizing: border-box; height: 655px; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348204236.jpeg" width="496" height="655" data-ratio="1.3185185185185184" data-w="1080" data-src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348204236.jpeg" /></section> </section> <section style="display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; margin: 10px 0%; text-align: right; justify-content: flex-end; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; align-self: flex-end; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="justify-content: flex-end; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box; transform: translate3d(13px, 0px, 0px);"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="box-sizing: border-box; transform: rotateZ(90deg);"> <section style="margin: 0px 0% 18px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="color: rgba(198, 224, 252, 0.35); box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;MOTHER'S DAY</p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: 80%; background-color: rgba(198, 224, 252, 0.35); flex: 0 0 auto; align-self: flex-end; height: auto; padding: 80px 0px 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="margin: 20px 0% 0px; justify-content: flex-end; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; padding: 0px 30px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="margin: 0px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="color: #3e3e3e; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px; text-align: justify; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="caret-color: #3e3e3e; color: #3e3e3e; font-size: 15px;"><span style="color: #0f4d92;">母亲节</span></strong><span style="text-align: right;">，</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="text-align: right;">在祝母亲节日快乐的同时</span><span style="text-align: right;">，</span></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="text-align: right;">我们还关注那些对成为母亲怀揣渴望的女性。</span><strong style="caret-color: #3e3e3e; color: #3e3e3e; font-size: 15px;"><span style="color: #0f4d92;"><br /></span></strong></span><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br /></span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">成为母亲，是女性享有的权利，不只是从孕育或生产那一刻开始，还有在孕育</span>生命这一神圣又艰难的旅程之前的漫长准备。</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">一直没遇到合适的配偶？总想先打拼事业，才能为孩子出生后打下更好的经济基础？亦或是在更年轻的年龄存下健康、高质量的卵子，为未来做打算？在科技发达的当下，这一切似乎都有了解决之道。延迟生育的现象在全球日益流行，冻卵技术的出现更是为无数女性提供了自由掌控时间的可能性。</span></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <section style="padding: 0px; color: rgba(95, 156, 239, 0.78); box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</span></strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 17px; text-shadow: #ffffff 1px 1px 0px, rgba(157, 187, 254, 0.46) 3px 3px 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">你知道什么是冻卵吗？</span></strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 17px; text-shadow: #ffffff 1px 1px 0px, rgba(157, 187, 254, 0.46) 3px 3px 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;About Egg Freezing</span></strong></span></p> </section> <section style="padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> </section> <section style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">卵母细胞冷冻保存（o<span style="box-sizing: border-box;">ocyte cryopreservation, OC）</span></span></strong><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">，简称冻卵，诞生于21世纪初，是一种快速冷冻并储存人类卵子的技术，起初被应用于接受化疗或是患有不孕疾病的女性身上。2012年，美国生殖医学协会允许女性出于非医疗原因来冷冻她们的卵子。截至2019年底，全美共有超过36,000名女性使用这种技术来延长生育能力。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(95, 156, 239, 0.78); box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 17px; text-shadow: #ffffff 1px 1px 0px, rgba(157, 187, 254, 0.46) 3px 3px 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">是什么促使她们做出冻卵这一决定？</span></strong></span></p> <p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(95, 156, 239, 0.78); box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgba(95, 156, 239, 0.78); font-size: 17px; text-shadow: #ffffff 1px 1px 0px, rgba(157, 187, 254, 0.46) 3px 3px 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">What drives them to this decision?</span></strong></span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="color: #3e3e3e; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">普世价值观中，人们通常认为女性冻卵的原因是教育追求与职业规划。然而，耶鲁大学人类学与国际事务William K. Lanman Jr.讲席教授Marcia C Inhorn在其新书<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">《冰冻母职：配偶缺口与女性冷冻卵子的原因 (<em style="box-sizing: border-box;">Motherhood on Ice: The Mating Gap and Why Women Freeze Their Eggs</em>) 》（纽约大学出版社）</span></strong>中提出，根本问题在于&ldquo;配偶缺口&rdquo;：越来越多优秀的女性无法找到与之相匹配的男性。</p> </section> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="max-width: 100%; vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; box-sizing: border-box;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; max-width: 100%; width: 507px; box-sizing: border-box; height: 295px;" src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348251111.jpeg" width="507" height="295" data-ratio="0.5812133072407045" data-w="1022" data-src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348251111.jpeg" /></section> </section> <section style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; color: #a0a0a0; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">Marcia C Inhorn教授与其新书<em style="box-sizing: border-box;">Motherhood on Ice: The Mating Gap and Why Women Freeze Their Eggs</em></p> </section> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <section style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">在接受<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">《耶鲁新闻》（<em style="box-sizing: border-box;">YaleNews</em>）</span></strong>的采访时，Inhorn教授分享了她的最新发现。本书通过采访<span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">150名</strong></span>接受冻卵手术的女性，尝试揭示这一选择背后的<span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">复杂性</strong></span>，以及与人们对冻卵传统认知的相悖之处。</span></p> </section> <section style="margin: 10px 0% -10px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 51px; line-height: 1; padding: 0px; text-align: center; text-shadow: #0f4d92 0px 1.4px, #0f4d92 1px 1px, #0f4d92 1.4px 0px, #0f4d92 1px -1px, #0f4d92 0px -1.4px, #0f4d92 -1px -1px, #0f4d92 -1.4px 0px, #0f4d92 -1px 1px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">Q&amp;A</strong></em></p> </section> </section> <section style="text-align: center; margin: 0px 0% 10px; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: auto; vertical-align: top; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; border-width: 1px 0px; border-radius: 1px; border-style: solid none none; border-color: #0f4d92 #3e3e3e #e094ba; overflow: hidden; padding: 0px 5px; background-color: #ffffff; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="color: rgba(200, 225, 242, 0.78); font-size: 15px; text-shadow: #0f4d92 0px 0px; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;">YaleNews - Marcia C Inhorn</em></p> </section> </section> </section> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <section style="margin: 10px 0% 0px; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgba(227, 242, 253, 0.78); border-width: 0px; padding: 0px 10px 0px 20px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; justify-content: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; border-style: none solid none none; border-width: 1px 2px; border-radius: 0px; border-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) #0f4d92 #5c6bc0 #5c6bc0; padding: 0px 5px 0px 0px; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px; line-height: 1; width: auto; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box; transform: matrix(1, 0, -0.2, 1, 0, 0);"> <section style="justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: #0f4d92; padding: 5px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="box-sizing: border-box; transform: translate3d(2px, 0px, 0px);"> <section style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 26px; text-align: center; line-height: 1; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">Y</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; width: auto; flex: 100 100 0%; height: auto; align-self: center; padding: 0px 0px 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #0f4d92; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">是什么启发您创作了此书？</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">自冻卵技术被开放使用以来，人们普遍认为其受众为20多岁的女性群体。她们希望在追求事业的道路上推迟生育的时间，冻卵就成为了支持这一选择的方式。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">但是在我看来，这一结论仍然是有待商榷的，</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">或许存在一种尚未被讨论的原因</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">。在我的采访对象中，有36人由于医疗原因冷冻了卵子。因此，本书着重介绍了</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">另外114名出于非医疗原因而选择冻卵的女性们的故事</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">。</span></p> </section> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <section style="margin: 10px 0% 0px; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgba(227, 242, 253, 0.78); border-width: 0px; padding: 0px 10px 0px 20px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; justify-content: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; border-style: none solid none none; border-width: 1px 2px; border-radius: 0px; border-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) #0f4d92 #5c6bc0 #5c6bc0; padding: 0px 5px 0px 0px; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px; line-height: 1; width: auto; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box; transform: matrix(1, 0, -0.2, 1, 0, 0);"> <section style="justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: #0f4d92; padding: 5px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="box-sizing: border-box; transform: translate3d(2px, 0px, 0px);"> <section style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 26px; text-align: center; line-height: 1; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">Y</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; width: auto; flex: 100 100 0%; height: auto; align-self: center; padding: 0px 0px 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">请问您有哪些发现</strong>？</p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">在绝大多数情况下，选择冻卵的女性都在</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">三十多岁左右，其中82%为单身人士，而单身也是她们冻卵最主要的原因</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">。这颠覆了人们的传统认知，即认为年轻职业女性是因为忙于打拼事业，才会想推迟生育的时间。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">实际情况却是，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">作为受过良好教育的成功女性，她们发现自己处于想要建立亲密关系、怀孕和为人父母，但却无法找到合适伴侣的困境之中</span></strong>&mdash;&mdash;即缺乏符合&ldquo;3E&rdquo;元素：合适的、受教育的、平等的（Eligible, Educated, Equal）潜在伴侣。</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">女性的生育能力在</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">37岁</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">时开始明显下降，被称为&ldquo;生育力悬崖&rdquo;（fertility cliff），我采访的女性大多处于或接近这个年龄范围。她们想要成为母亲，但却感到时间紧迫。这本书正是记录了处在这样困境中的女性。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> </section> <section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="max-width: 100%; vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; box-sizing: border-box;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; max-width: 100%; width: 458px; box-sizing: border-box; height: 258px;" src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348745634.jpeg" width="458" height="258" data-ratio="0.562962962962963" data-w="1080" data-src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348745634.jpeg" /></section> </section> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #3e3e3e; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> </section> <section style="margin: 10px 0% 0px; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgba(227, 242, 253, 0.78); border-width: 0px; padding: 0px 10px 0px 20px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; justify-content: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; border-style: none solid none none; border-width: 1px 2px; border-radius: 0px; border-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) #0f4d92 #5c6bc0 #5c6bc0; padding: 0px 5px 0px 0px; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px; line-height: 1; width: auto; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box; transform: matrix(1, 0, -0.2, 1, 0, 0);"> <section style="justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: #0f4d92; padding: 5px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="box-sizing: border-box; transform: translate3d(2px, 0px, 0px);"> <section style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 26px; text-align: center; line-height: 1; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">Y</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; width: auto; flex: 100 100 0%; height: auto; align-self: center; padding: 0px 0px 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #0f4d92; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">为何受过高等教育和成功的职业女性难以寻找伴侣？</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #3e3e3e; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">在美国各大城市中，受过大学教育的女性数量高于男性，这也是&ldquo;配偶缺口&rdquo;出现的根本原因。2015年出版的《约会经济学 (<em style="box-sizing: border-box;">Date-onomics</em>) 》中，经济学记者Jon Birge分析了美国男性与女性之间的</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">教育差距</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">，发现这一差距自20世纪80年代以来一直在不断扩大。女性的本科教育的入学率和毕业率都明显高于男性，Birge将这一现象称为</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">&ldquo;男人赤字&rdquo;（man deficit）</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">在世界银行的数据中，我还发现了一个名为&ldquo;性别均等指数&rdquo;（Gender Parity Index）的数据，它揭示了男性和女性之间的教育赤字：</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">在全球60%以上的国家中，女性在高等教育中的表现都超过了男性</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> </section> <section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="max-width: 100%; vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; box-sizing: border-box;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; max-width: 100%; width: 499px; box-sizing: border-box; height: 338px;" src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348247302.jpeg" width="499" height="338" data-ratio="0.6770833333333334" data-w="960" data-src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348247302.jpeg" /></section> </section> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #3e3e3e; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> </section> <section style="margin: 10px 0% 0px; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgba(227, 242, 253, 0.78); border-width: 0px; padding: 0px 10px 0px 20px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; justify-content: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; border-style: none solid none none; border-width: 1px 2px; border-radius: 0px; border-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) #0f4d92 #5c6bc0 #5c6bc0; padding: 0px 5px 0px 0px; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px; line-height: 1; width: auto; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box; transform: matrix(1, 0, -0.2, 1, 0, 0);"> <section style="justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: #0f4d92; padding: 5px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="box-sizing: border-box; transform: translate3d(2px, 0px, 0px);"> <section style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 26px; text-align: center; line-height: 1; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">Y</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; width: auto; flex: 100 100 0%; height: auto; align-self: center; padding: 0px 0px 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #0f4d92; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">男人们是否只是不愿意与比他们更为优秀的女性建立关系？</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #3e3e3e; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">这是被谈论最多的问题之一。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">男性普遍不愿和受教育程度更高、有成就或收入更高的女性成为伴侣。同时，成功女性也倾向于寻找和自己有同等教育水平和事业成就的伴侣</span></strong>。女人们知道，如果在约会中透露自己的博士学位，她们将会一无所获。</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">除此以外还有其他问题，比如男性普遍缺乏结婚以及成为父亲的意愿和准备。许多男人的内心是希望永远单身的，女人们称之为&ldquo;彼得潘&rdquo;（Peter Pans），因为他们往往拒绝长大，也没有安顿下来的打算。</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">我必须声明一下，我在这本书中并没有谴责男人的意图。有一章我讨论了<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">男性在决定冻卵的女性生活中扮演的重要角色</span></strong>。父亲、兄弟、男性朋友，有时甚至是女性的前伴侣对她们的支持都很重要。</p> </section> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <section style="margin: 10px 0% 0px; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgba(227, 242, 253, 0.78); border-width: 0px; padding: 0px 10px 0px 20px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; justify-content: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; border-style: none solid none none; border-width: 1px 2px; border-radius: 0px; border-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) #0f4d92 #5c6bc0 #5c6bc0; padding: 0px 5px 0px 0px; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px; line-height: 1; width: auto; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box; transform: matrix(1, 0, -0.2, 1, 0, 0);"> <section style="justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: #0f4d92; padding: 5px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="box-sizing: border-box; transform: translate3d(2px, 0px, 0px);"> <section style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 26px; text-align: center; line-height: 1; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">Y</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; width: auto; flex: 100 100 0%; height: auto; align-self: center; padding: 0px 0px 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #0f4d92; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">冻卵的过程是怎样的？</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #3e3e3e; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">这一过程并非易事。我在书中专门用了一章的内容讲述了这一艰难的过程。简单来说，一个周期的卵子冷冻大约需要10,000美元。但由于荷尔蒙药物的使用，最终费用接近15,000美元，同时还需自行注射，这是非常困难的一点。<br style="box-sizing: border-box;" /></span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">每年的卵子储存费在500美元到1500美元之间。当你想使用卵子的时候，需要花费6000美元来完成试管婴儿周期的后半部分，</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">因此这是一项非常昂贵的技术</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">在我采访的对象中，大约90%的人能够自己支付这笔费用。</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">然而，它的价格亟待降低，或是由医疗保险来进行支付，因为大多数女性都负担不起</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> </section> <section style="transform-origin: center center; margin-top: -7px; margin-bottom: -7px; box-sizing: border-box; transform: scale(0.9);"> <section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="max-width: 100%; vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; box-sizing: border-box;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; max-width: 100%; width: 471px; box-sizing: border-box; height: 326px;" src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348328460.jpeg" width="471" height="326" data-ratio="0.692" data-w="1000" data-src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348328460.jpeg" /></section> </section> </section> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <section style="margin: 10px 0% 0px; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: rgba(227, 242, 253, 0.78); border-width: 0px; padding: 0px 10px 0px 20px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; justify-content: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-start; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; min-width: 10%; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: top; border-style: none solid none none; border-width: 1px 2px; border-radius: 0px; border-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) #0f4d92 #5c6bc0 #5c6bc0; padding: 0px 5px 0px 0px; background-color: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0); box-shadow: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0) 0px 0px 0px; line-height: 1; width: auto; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box; transform: matrix(1, 0, -0.2, 1, 0, 0);"> <section style="justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row nowrap; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="display: inline-block; width: 100%; vertical-align: top; background-color: #0f4d92; padding: 5px; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="box-sizing: border-box; transform: translate3d(2px, 0px, 0px);"> <section style="color: #ffffff; font-size: 26px; text-align: center; line-height: 1; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">Y</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: middle; width: auto; flex: 100 100 0%; height: auto; align-self: center; padding: 0px 0px 0px 10px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #0f4d92; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">冻卵可以弥补&ldquo;配偶缺口&rdquo;吗？</strong></p> </section> </section> </section> </section> </section> <section style="font-size: 15px; color: #3e3e3e; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 6px; box-sizing: border-box;"> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">冻卵并非解决&ldquo;配偶缺口&rdquo;的根本办法，</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">但它可以帮助女性在生育期结束前多争取一点时间</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">。我并不提倡冷冻卵子，但它不失为一种值得被考虑的工具，尤其是对于那些想成为母亲的30多岁单身女性来说。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">与此同时，&ldquo;配偶缺口&rdquo;亟待解决，否则它将继续扩大。在人类学中，有两个名为</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">&ldquo;高配&rdquo;（hypergamy）</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">和</span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #0f4d92; box-sizing: border-box;">&ldquo;低配&rdquo;（hypogamy）</span></strong><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">的术语，前者指的是与更高阶层的人结亲，后者指的是下嫁婚配。传统情况下，女性一直与年龄稍大、受教育程度高、收入更多的人结婚。而今天，学历更高、事业更成功的她们正面临缺乏具有同等教育水平或职业成就的男性伴侣情况。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: #3e3e3e; box-sizing: border-box;">或许，当今时代的女性需要考虑&ldquo;低配&rdquo;，但这并非意味着她们应该满足于低于自己标准的人，而是如果一个人让你开心，对你很好，你其实可以有一段很好的关系。同样，男性也要克服对于高学历和成功女性的畏惧感，并认识到与优秀的人建立稳定关系是非常美好的一件事。</span></p> <p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">&nbsp;</p> </section> <section style="text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; line-height: 0; box-sizing: border-box;"> <section style="max-width: 100%; vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0; width: 100%; height: auto; box-sizing: border-box;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; max-width: 100%; width: 493px; box-sizing: border-box; height: 329px; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348481350.jpeg" width="493" height="329" data-ratio="0.6666666666666666" data-w="1080" data-src="https://editor-user.365editor.com/wechat/98/28/4941828/1684134348481350.jpeg" /></section> </section> <p style="margin: 0px; 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